who are you, really?
let's be ourselves, together.
What does it mean to be “authentic”?
My friends describe me as warm, open, nonjudgmental, a little bit silly, and interested in people: what makes us tick, and how we can all experience moments when we actually feel like ourselves, with no pressure — if just for a moment.
That’s what I’m trying to find, that sweet spot.
I’m not interested in just having a “transaction” between strangers. I hope to help create the experience of two friends just getting together, relaxing, and feeling like we can exhale. (Meeting in this particular way is inherently a little strange, and I acknowledge that! That’s okay!)
I’m not the most perfectly-polished person, but real life isn’t always polished. I was born on a tropical Philippine island, and I feel most at home in my adopted home state of California, but I exist somewhere in-between. I studied creative writing at a massive renowned California public university first, then pivoted to health sciences as a graduate, and now, sometimes, I make funny little creatures out of felt. I’m a little bit goofy sometimes. You can interpret that however you like!
I might be a bit (hopefully endearingly) awkward at times, but I’ve reached the point in my adult life where I’m comfortable with that. I hope you are, too. My favorite states of being are “sincere” and “silly” … and I truly believe these two elements coexist beautifully.
No pressure, no stress. Let’s be comfortable, let’s relax and laugh together, and let’s just be ourselves.
Who you'll meet:
just under 5'0" // petite // European & Asian // degrees in creative writing & health sciences // Myers-Briggs: INFP-A (optimistic, idealistic, interested in healing and helping others, and focused on possibility)
What I love:
absurdist humor, creative nonfiction, photojournalism & street photography, Coen Brothers movies, playing along with Jeopardy! (and taking, and failing, the Jeopardy! Anytime Test)
Japanese & farm-to-table cuisine; everything from prix-fixe tasting menus to adventurous street food, things we can share, eating with our hands, wishing organ meats were a bigger part of most American restaurants' menus
kissing! (and cuddling!) DO kiss and touch my face, play with my hair...
boats & taking the ferry when it's not practical to do so, long-distance train rides, hot springs, healing touch, scalp massages (giving and receiving until we both look insane)
quiet, simple moments of shared warmth; also, just being delightfully stupid together
Current Location as of Spring/Summer 2024:
San Francisco, CA
& always available for ‘Fly Me To You’ trips anywhere you are.
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800 /// 1hr /// a quick catch-up for established friends
1000 /// 1.5 hrs /// a sweet introduction
1200 /// 2 hrs /// a relaxed hello with time to explore
1500 /// 4 hrs /// a true dinner date with an organic pace
2000 /// 6 hrs /// a night or day out and about, with indulgence and real connection
3000 /// ~ 14 hrs overnight /// a proper evening of delight, then dreaming alongside one another and plenty of cuddling… I love sharing a bed!
5000 /// 24 hrs /// a full day together with anything we can imagine
8000 /// 48 hrs /// a weekend all our own
Meets longer than two hours should include time for a meal, an activity, or grabbing drinks!
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San Francisco is the city I call home when I’m not traveling. I don’t have a fixed incall location here in the Bay Area, but I’m happy to arrange a location for us with everything booked by me; please simply add a 200USD hotel fee if desired. I’m otherwise happy to come to your residence at my discretion, or your well-appointed hotel within the SF Bay Area.
(As a classic city-dwelling gal without a car, I may request an Uber fee for some Bay Area destinations outside of the city of San Francisco.)
I do ask a 10% deposit for all bookings, which can be sent easily and discreetly with multiple methods available. (Options include simple, user-friendly electronic methods, anonymous deposits, gift cards, cryptocurrency, and more.)
I dearly appreciate you sending the 10% deposit only, and not the full amount. I do try to stay within my receiving limits for certain financial services, and surpassing those limits may get my accounts flagged for review. If you wish to send a full amount in a method other than cash, I’m happy to provide options, including cryptocurrency and other methods. As a fun option, I even accept cast gold bullion — ask me!)
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Curious about travel and more possibilities?
I’m passport-ready for international excursions, and also love exploring all over the US! I’m happy to plan for a “Fly Me To You” trip where I come to you, whereever you are. I would be happy to make this plan for a minimum meet of 6 hours or longer in the Pacific or Mountain time zones (2000USD + travel), or for a meet overnight or longer for Central or Eastern time zones (3000USD + travel). I may request a larger deposit for Fly Me To You trips.
I’d be delighted to visit your home city — or to meet you while you’re on a business trip so we can enjoy your downtime together — or for the two of us to meet up in a getaway destination new to us both!
I’m VERY petite (just a touch under five feet!), so my travel costs are reasonable, and I do not require first class; I have plenty of room to stretch anywhere, and I’m a minimalist traveler and famously pack very lightly. (I’m proud to say that I’ve never had to check a bag in my life!)
With that said, if a flight is longer than a few hours, a courtesy coverage of a night’s rest at a hotel prior to our meet is a much appreciated kindness, and will ensure that I’m rested and bright-eyed when we meet.
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